Advice to my fellow women

One thing I've learned about relationships is that they are overrated.  In the past I've gotten in relationships because I've felt lonely and to not feel bad about screwing someone outside of marriage.  That is something that's been ingrained in me since childhood and slowly but surely that is going out the damn window as I'm doing 90 down the highway.  Marriage is highly overrated it is in my opinion only a piece of paper that costs a lot of money and god forbid you should get a divorce cause that costs an ass load of money.  I've found myself fuck buddies and I enjoy it because I get my needs met and then they get home, unless your my current fuck buddy then you stick around and talk with me.  The only thing is it kind of wierds me out when they stick around after sex and we chit chat.  I mean aren't they suppose to leave afterwards?  My friends all tell me that means he's interested in me.

Ladies here's a tip I've discovered: When you get a man's number text or call him once, if he doesn't reply or call back, don't continue to call him.  Let the number sit for about a week, then send another text or phone call, if nothing, then delete the number.  If they are truly interested in you and they see your not acting desperate they are more likely to come to you.  don't go to them, fuck that, let them come to you.  Dress your best, act the flirt but don't be easy unless your looking for a one night stand, in that case feel free to be easy.  Also ladies, in bed don't be limp and lay there, flip him over and ride that man, hold his arms down as your ridding him and then procede on biting his neck, drives them absolutely crazy!  lol I love it, cause when I do that them men keep coming back, I know, that's why I have exes still trying to get back with me. 

Ladies, don't fuck around with men, if your interested and they show that they are interested and actually make the effort to get to know you, don't blow them off.  If your not interested shit just be honest with them, its best to punch them as hard as you can in the face rather than sugar coating the blow.  That's the way I work.  I just got done telling an ex of mine that we were never going to date and that he could never have me because I didn't trust him and then I told him exactly the reasons why I didn't trust him (previous post, crazy ass hick).  Men hate it when you beat around the bush, so don't, don't sugar coat shit.  Men love a woman who is honest, men love me because I'm brutally honest, something I've learned over the years.

Ladies if you don't trust your man and you have to find out if he's cheating on you there is 2 things going on: either your ultra paranoid or he's giving you reason not to trust him.  Be open and honest with him, ask him direct questions.  Are you cheating on me?  Do you want to be with someone else?  Chances are its not you and some men will try and make it about you, what's wrong with you, listen take it in, but under no circumstance attempt to change for that ass.  There's a few men that will lie but you  can tell in how they reply that they are lieing to you, if you still despite all his good efforts to convince you other wise that he's not cheating on you still believe he's cheating on you, break up with him, don't beat around the bush, don't wait for your heart to get broken worse than what it already is, just break up with him.  In the case that you are just ultra paranoid cause you've been in relationships where guys have cheated on you, then I suggest you speak to someone, or take time off of relationships and learn more about yourself, treat yourself, do something nice for you.  Don't lead a man to love you and then suspect them of cheating on you.  To the few good guys that don't, that hurts like a mother fucker.

Anyways this post is done, anything you want to hear about, any post you want clarification feel free to ask away.  Peace ya'll

Morgan

Lets be interactive

Alright ladies, gentlemen, this is going to be an interactive blog.  What would you all like to see in the next blog, or whenever I start to get comments on this?  Any burning questions you have for me?  I look forward to your questions or thoughts.

There was a boy one time, who I fell in love with in middle school and stayed in love with him through my time being alive.  Only seeking happiness for him I hooked him  up with my roommate because I wasn't sure if I could be the one to bring him happiness.  They broke up because unknoweth to me she was psychotic.  Now all I want is for him to be happy, but I also want myself to be happy.  I'm sure, positive down there somewhere in his heart he has a seed of love for me.  He shows me just by the way he acts around me or talks to me when we have a chance to be together.  I miss him terribly and want to be by his side for the rest of my life and yet he loves another.  I have a hard time trying to love another person as much as I love him, no matter who I date, who I meet he's always there nestled softly within the chambers of my heart, I harbour him there like the womb holds a seed.  I can't help it, he's the only one I want, yet he tells me to go out have fun and if we're meant to be together then it'll happen.  I'm not one for fate, I believe in writing your own destiny on that tablet of life, if guided by fate then so be it but I walk my own path in life.

I just really miss him right now and he doesn't come home till december when he'll be bringing his girlfriend...I suppose everyone has their Ashley Wilkes.